Mens Health and Sex Advice

by Peter James

I think this is one of the areas that the mind set is different for men and women. For a man, it depends on the length of a relationship. If they know it will be short term, trust and communication isn’t really an issue. They know all they are in it for is the sex and they know that it will be over in a small amount of time.On the other hand, women see it differently. I think some of it is because they were taught as kids to be afraid of men. They are told to be on the look out for strangers or people who might harm them. Think about it… How many times do you hear of a woman raping a child? Not very often.

I do think this plays into the mind set of a woman. She will need someone she can trust and communicate with to have sex. Now, I don’t mean that this is the case with a one night stand or someone that she has casual sex with. Instead, this is in regards to a relationship. You see, women view all relationships as a strong bond. Being that this is the case, even for a short term relationship she needs to have trust and communication to have sex.

Let’s talk about trust for a little while. You might not like what I have to say, but that is your choice.

- Women have a reason why they shouldn’t trust men. Actually, they have a lot of reasons. On one hand I feel that this is a sad thing, but on the other hand I understand it. I understand the sexual desires of a man and I understand why they think they way they do.

- We all are looking to get a woman in bed. We all want to get our freak on as much as we can. Women know this. This is a reason why she doesn’t trust men. She knows that men will say anything and I mean anything to get in her pants. How many times have you lied trying to get into a girls pants? Probably more times than you can count.

- Again the issue with the girls that get raped while they are kids. This does put a lot of fear into a woman at an early age. Also, people rape adults. So they are constantly on the look out for the person who is going to rape them. It does happen, more so than what we may think. It is a sad state in this world when men have to rape a woman to have sex. Personally if I was in such a situation, I would rent a porn movie and jerk off.

- Women sometimes don’t trust men because their fathers were abusive. This has more of an effect on women than we would like to think. A lot of people have had abusive childhoods. It is more common than we think.

- If you are out for a quick lay, I’m not sure that it is worth the effort to try to figure out why a potential date or even your current girlfriend has issues with trusting you. I mean, if you are only looking for sex and she isn’t giving it to you, why stick around?

- If on the other hand you are looking for a long term relationship with this woman, then you should take the time out to know why she is the way she is. She might have been abused or raped sometime in her life. It is important to know this, but I wouldn’t dig too deep.

- If you have to dig deep about what bothers her about men, chances are she doesn’t want you or anyone else to know. It is possible that after she feels more comfortable with you, she will tell you. On the other hand, she might just think you are an asshole.

- People can be very timid in regards to telling others about their problems. They are afraid they may laugh at them or hold it against them. This does happen. You might not think about it, but some men won’t even touch a woman who has been raped. They don’t understand that it wasn’t their fault, all they think about is the dirty act and how dirty they must be.

This is why it is important that you keep an open line of communication with your woman. She needs to know that she can talk about anything and everything to you. The next time she talks about her period, don’t go ape shit and tell her that it is disgusting. Put up with it and ask questions if you need to. This is the key thing if you want her to trust you.

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Nearly all movie stars, TV anchors, top models and singers look like gods. Perfect legs, slim waists, cool hairstyles, tanned bodies. They look effortlessly beautiful, but you should not be deceived by the appearances. Aside from a handful of people, all the rest have to work hard at it. Dieting and workouts are among the most important things in the life of a high-powered star. Because if they don-t look right, they don-t get contracts and they are soon out of the public minds and hearts. Such is life in Hollywood.

And just like any place where money and ambition meet, there are a lot of people trying to push this or that idea as the best thing since sliced bread, or something like that. And celebrities many do fall for this stuff, mainly because celebrities are just like the rest of us and have a hard time finding a diet that works. Since we are all a bit different from each other, there-s no single diet that works the same for everybody, which means that one has to try this or that eating plan in order to find which one is best. And the search can get a bit rough sometimes.

Famous model Claudia Schiffer, for instance, is not on any kind of diet. Naturally, she ahs tried a lot of them and has finally concluded that diets are messing with her metabolism and that she is better off sticking to a three meals per day plan. The meals are rich in vegetables and fruits, which are fast digested by the body, and she tried hard not to resort to snacks during meals. However, she does give in to temptation every now and then and eats a bit of chocolate or some other forbidden food. The crucial thing is not to give in to the temptation of eating a whole box of sweets.

Three meals per day rich in vegetables and fruits is also the cornerstone of Geri Halliwell-s eating plan. After going through excessive exercising and a long row of bizarre diets, Geri decided that enough is enough and turned to what she calls -sensible eating-. She is now part of the growing trend of celebrities that would rather have a nice set of curves to show than a skinny figure. So a bit of fat here and there is no longer a problem, which means that she can be less stressed about the whole dieting thing.

The same basic idea worked for TV presenter Claire Sweeney, who chose the Weight Watchers diet precisely because it let her eat foods that she likes and that other diets forbid. She had already gone through a detox plan, which she could not stick to, an Atkins diet that gave her a kidney infection and a dozen other dieting ideas. Weight Watchers worked for her better than anything else and so she-s still on the program.

Actress Gwyneth Paltrow has been on a macrobiotic diet plan for years. She would not touch meat, eggs, dairy products and caffeine and stuck with it until her recent pregnancy. After giving birth to her daughter, Apple, Gwyneth returned to her eating plan, but she says she is not as strict as she once was. While still avoiding foods that drain her energy, the actress has found that a relaxed attitude is better than looking like a bean pole.

It seems that the stick figure is slowly going out of style after the excesses of the -90s. More and more stars find that maintaining a healthy balance between their cravings and their image is better than denying themselves every pleasure in order to reach an unreasonable beauty standard. And it turns out that this is not a bad approach at all.

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