Mens Health and Sex Advice

by Peter James

The hip thing these days it seems is for women to call themselves virgins. I don’t really understand this, because very few of them are actually virgins. I think women are trying to win back their dignity. They want to seem as pure sugar while they lay on their backs for every Tom, Dick, and Hairy. This trend seems to me a bit far fetched, but hey, I thought getting your eye brow pierced was too. Finding a virgin is like finding a needle in a needle in a hay stack. They are like an animal on the endangered species list. I know they exist, but I’m not sure if I have ever seen one.
Sometimes it seems that you almost have to be like the Crocodile Hunter and go out and hunt one down. I don’t know if it is worth the time, unless you are into such a beast…

There are many reasons why a woman might want to be a virgin. In this day and age of diseases, its not that bad of an idea. I have yet to have such great sex that it is worth dying for. I have never had sex with a Playboy Playmate, so maybe I don’t know what I am talking about.

- By not having sex you don’t have any risk of getting pregnant. Men these days don’t seem to want to take care of their babies. Nothing would be worse than having a baby and being forced to work at a fast food joint to pay the bills. Being a single mother is tough these days and I don’t blame them for not wanting to take that chance. It is hard enough to live on your own, let alone have to worry about kids.
- Some women may choose not to have sex for religious reasons. This is probably the number one reason why women stay virgins. They believe that they aren’t allowed to have sex until they are married. I went to church when I was a teenager and during this time a lot of girls in the church were having sex. I guess some people practice this, while others just claim that they do.

- There is the type of woman who claims she is a virgin but yet will give you oral sex. She will allow you to stick your fingers in her love cave and get them stinky. She does this so in her mind she is still a virgin, pure and clean.

I’m not sure that I would call someone who can toot your flute like they are playing in an orchestra a virgin. I guess this can help reduce the risk of catching a disease. Also, you don’t run the risk of pregnancy. If she wants to toot your flute, let her play all the notes she wants.

The next bunch of virgins are the type that allow you to touch them, but not do anything else. She may allow you to feel her breasts or lick her nipples. If you are lucky she will cop a feel of your penis. That is about as far as it goes with her. She might eventually end up being like the ‘virgins’ who will toot your flute. I wouldn’t count on it though.

This might sound odd, so make sure you are sitting down for this next one. Some ‘virgins’ enjoy anal sex. They feel since they aren’t using their vagina’s it really isn’t sex. Anal sex is called anal sex for a reason, because it is sex. Just like oral sex is sex. I have no idea why a woman thinks that if she spreads her cheeks, she is still a virgin. I guess it doesn’t matter in the long run. All that matters if you can get some of the sweet anal love canal. I won’t argue if she thinks this will keep her a virgin.

Sometimes when a woman hasn’t had sex in a while, the vagina can shrink to its normal size. She can actually bleed the first time she has sex in a long, long time. Though she isn’t really a virgin, she will seem like it. This is like the David Copperfield of virgins. There is some magic going on in tat putty cat.

Some women are what they call ’secondary virgins’. This really blows my mind. Basically they go out and screw everything thing that moves and decide they will be a virgin until they get married. I’m not sure how they can feel they are a virgin, but who am I to understand anything about a woman. I think this usually happens after a woman has a religious experience and decides that she will take the plunge again after she is married.

Why is this so important? To a man, he could care less really. Getting to lay a virgin is like winning a world series, but after a certain age you realize that your chances of this is slim. Personally, I think as you get older it is no longer an issue. You want a woman who can rock your world in bed, not someone who has never done anything before. Other than not having to worry about disease, to me and probably most men, this whole virgin thing is plain stupid.

The reason why some women are so obsessed about this is, they want to remain pure. Their virginity is the only thing that they see as making them pure and clean. They can talk like a sailor who has had too many beers, but yet if that precious tuna canal hasn’t been explored, they are pure as can be.

I am amazed that this is still an issue. After all of the women’s rights stuff in the 1960’s, I would have figured this was long gone. I guess I am wrong. If this confuses you as much as it does me, then just leave it alone. If your woman is claiming she is a virgin, but yet has screwed the High school football team, I would leave her be. She is more than likely a nut case and needs to be avoided.

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The obvious answer would be- sit back and bask in your glory. You may think that you have won the genetic race and are better off than most other men. You may think that the world of sex is yours for the taking. However, such is not always the case.

Many women will recoil in shock from the sight of such an impressive penis. Sure, it looks big and the very herald of untold pleasures. But no woman, especially not one who has never had the pleasure of such an encounter, can fully repress the suspicion that your size may be too big for her. Most women will be afraid that insertion would hurt and that subsequent sex would be a painful ride instead of a pleasure cruise. Anal sex will be completely out of the question, whereas oral sex will be an awkward proposition at best.

So what-s left? First and foremost- don-t jump her. At the moment when your penis springs into view, your partner is most likely both aroused and afraid, not to mention more than a bit curious about how it would feel (heck, it-s not everyday she comes upon such a fine specimen). So take it slowly. Don-t amplify her sense that things may take a wrong turn. Above all, don-t skip foreplay! I don-t know how you feel about foreplay, but in this case it-s your best friend. Foreplay will help you push her past fear and into pleasure.

Second- don-t slam it all in at once. This will surely hurt, even if the last time she was tight was five years and a couple of boyfriends ago. Jokes aside, take your time and slide only your head in at first. Keep going slowly until her body adjusts to your size and she can take your entire size in. Once you-re in don-t start slamming full tilt like there-s no tomorrow. She would certainly not appreciate it.

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Most people, especially women, discard weight lifting as a good form of exercise because they think that weight lifting will actually make their bodies look like a man. If you are one of those people, then you might be surprised to know that this is not true. The hormones of man and woman are not the same. The hormone testosterone plays a major role in muscular development. Because women have very little of this hormone, they tend not to "bulk-up" with weight training.

Researches also demonstrate that resistance exercise, also called strength training, like weight training and weight lifting, has profound effects on the musculoskeletal system, contributes to the maintenance of functional abilities, and prevents osteoporosis, sarcopenia (loss of body mass), lower-back pain, and other disabilities.

Weight lifting also contributes to muscle conditioning. Muscle conditioning is important for the overall stability and strength of the body. It is beneficial until the end of life if well maintained. Muscle conditioning is good for the bones because bones grow stronger and denser with stresses put on the muscles around them.

Moreover, weight lifting makes the muscles, connective tissues and tendons stronger.

The way you sit and stand are influenced by the health of a network of neck, shoulder, back, hip and abdominal muscles. Stronger muscles can help you stand and sit straighter and more comfortably. You may notice improved balance and stability.

As you begin to notice the positive physical changes in your body and develop a regular exercise routine, your ability to handle stress effectively will improve. Weight training allows you to sleep better, i.e., fall asleep quicker and sleep deeper. Clinical studies have shown regular exercise to be one of the three best tools for effective stress management.

Weight lifting, like most forms of exercise also raises metabolism thus causing the body to burn more calories. This helps in the maintenance of our desirable weight. Boosted metabolism (which means burning more calories when at rest) with reduced body fat. Your overall weight may not change, but you will gain muscle and lose fat. Over time you should notice decreases in waist measurements and body fat measurement.

Remember the adage -something is better than nothing.- Start improving your health. A little start like lifting those grocery bags and rocking your baby to sleep may mean a decrease on your risk of muscle loss on later years.

Consult with your doctor if you want to make weight lifting a daily part of your fitness regimen.

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