Mens Health and Sex Advice

by Michael Messner

I read your article and stepped out of my office. I went for a bite to eat and went for a walk. I needed some time to be able to think about what to tell you. I wanted to make sure that the advice was solid. My first reaction was to tell you to tell her to stop giving you oral for awhile. Maybe she would take down a bit when she wasn’t doing it all the time. That didn’t make much sense to me. If she is sucking too hard now, she will suck with more force if she hasn’t done it for a long time. Chances are she thinks that she is pleasing you. Maybe a past lover enjoyed being sucked so hard. I know some men brag about how hard their women can suck.
This is one of the emails that we received. This is a real problem and I am glad that he sent us this email.
Hello,
I’m not sure where to start. I am kind of shy about telling you about this. I have never talked to anyone about my sex life before. Not even with my buddies. I guess I don’t like to kiss and tell. I am with this great woman. She is the best thing that ever happened to me. She gives me sex when ever I want it. She will have sex 24/7 if I ask her to. The problem is, when she gives me oral, she sucks too hard. It is like she is trying to suck a pea through my penis. It actually hurts a lot. I have had a sore penis for three weeks now because of this. She actually sucks it so hard the head of my penis is sore.
What can I do to stop this?
Thanks,
Matt
Thanks for the email Matt. We love to hear from your readers. It makes me feel like we are actually providing a service to all of you guys out there.

You need to make sure that you are able to talk freely in the bedroom. This is a must. If you can’t talk in the bedroom, chances are you can’t talk about anything in your relationship. Comunication is very important in a relationship. If you don’t talk, it won’t last. She is more than a vagina, she should be your best friend. You wake up to this woman every day, you should be able to enjoy her. If you can’t, I would say that it isn’t worth the amount of time that you invest in her. That is a sad thing, but it is true.

First, I would suggest to you that you evaluate your communication. If you think it is good, then move on from there. If it isn’t, then you need to have a conversation about it. You need to tell her that you need to be able to speak your mind. There is no need to be in a relationship that you can’t discuss your feelings. If you feel that you are able to be open with her. Tell her that she is hurting you. Don’t be full of anger when you tell her. Tell her nicely. She will react in a positive manner. There is no reason to open a can of whip ass on her.

This is what I would do.

Start off with a nice dinner. Cook it yourself if you know how to cook. Set the mood, buy some candles and incense. Make the meal as romantic as you can. Cook things that you can feed each other. Fix oysters or finger sandwiches. Take her up to the room for some great sex. Tell her that you want to tell her what to do. Make it like a role playing game. If she sucks on you too hard, tell her that she is sucking too hard. Tell her that it hurts and to suck more gently. She will do it if you tell her nicely.

During this time, tell her nicely that she was sucking on you too hard. Be gentle and tell her how you like it. Tell her if you like your balls rubbed while she is doing it. Allow yourself to enjoy what she is doing to you. Get loose, if it feels good moan. If she hears you moaning, she will know to keep it up. That will be her signal that she is doing a good job. As always, try to keep a free and open line for communication. There is no reason not to. If either of you aren’t being pleased in bed, you should be able to say something about it. If you don’t, well Matt, get used to having a sore penis.

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Deep in the mind of every man lurks a disturbing question about an even more disturbing situation- what do I do if. you know. Whether you are scared that your partner is ready to go and your penis is not or if you feel the penis going soft on you in the middle of a sex session, the fear is the same. There are a few simple tricks that can be used in such unfortunate cases.

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by Cheeky Muffy

We all have heard myths regarding many things. I think you all know how I feel about these things. If they aren’t true, they end up doing more harm than good. I don’t know why we continue to spread myths, but I figure it has to do with lack of education. Myths still exist about diet. I have heard that in some parts of the world that certain meats have myths about them. For example people don’t eat cats in Thailand because they think they contain poison. I’m not sure if I would eat a cat, I haven’t so far in my life. But, if I was hungry enough I probably would. To what extent do we allow ourselves to get caught up in things that aren’t true? Well, for thousands of years we have done it day in and day out. Sometimes myths are based upon real facts that keep us healthy. If we can’t explain why people get sick eating a certain thing, then a myth is a great way to prevent it. In this day and age of science there is no need for that. Unless you are in a third world country, they can figure out why you got sick from something.

Let’s talk about some of these myths. I think that some of them are funny.
Eggs are bad for you. This is one that always gets under my skin. Sure they are bad for you if you eat a dozen per day. But if you eat them like you should, they are actually good for you. Eggs have been given a bad name for too long. I think we should all go out and have a three egg omlet today. I’ll take mine with cheese please. Greasy snacks cause pimples. This has been said about chocolate as well. This is farthest from the truth. Pimples are caused by clogged pores not by what we eat. If you are rubbing the chips all over your face, you might have an argument there. But, I don’t think that is the case.

A glass of wine a day will keep the doctor away. This is true to an extent. They have done research on people around the world. People who drink wine are healthier. Of course, some of that is based on diet as well. I mean, if you are eating a whole pig every day, no amount of wine is going to help you.

What is healthier butter or margarine? Some people will disagree with me here, but I think butter is. Butter is a fat that hasn’t been over processed. I like to think that all of these processed foods that we are eating is actually bad for us. I don’t see the reason why butter is any worse for you. Infact, they are almost the same in regards to fat content and calories. I’m not saying that you should consume large amounts of butter. I would say the same is true with margarine. The key thing to do is, use it in moderation.

Are frozen foods less good for you than fresh? By no means. Sure they might loose a little of their crunch in the freezing process. The important thing to do is make sure that you aren’t eating veggies that have other things added to them. This happens all the time, they will add cheese or other stuff to them. A lot of times they will cost less than the fresh items. If you are on a budget, I would suggest that you compare the prices of frozen veggies to fresh ones. You might actually get to save some money.

Can Mountain Dew make a man impotent? Well, this one is laughable. But it is said that the food dye can cause problems in men. The USDA has said that this isn’t true. I’m not sure what to believe really. I want to think that this isn’t true. I don’t have to worry because I don’t drink the stuff. Does vitamin C cure a cold? No. We are made to believe that it does, but in fact it doesn’t. There is no proof that it does.

Do carbs make you gain weight? Yes they do. They will put on the pounds just like any other food will. If not more so. The key thing is moderation. Don’t eat a loaf of bread with your breakfast. Celery takes more calories to digest than is in the product. That is false. There is no food like this on earth. There are more calories in celery than you will burn by eating it. That is one of the biggest myths out there.

As always, there is a little truth to the myths, but not much. Sometimes we will see things that we know are wrong, but they do have a point to them. Sometimes the point is just to make you think.

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