Archive for November 9th, 2007
Phone and Sex
November 9th, 2007
Sometimes, even if you have a regular and active sex life, it is a lot of fun to talk dirty to your partner over the phone. Whether you talk about what you did last night, what you want to do to her this weekend (or what you want her to do to you) or whether you just weave a fantasy, talking on the phone has an entirely different sexual dynamic than talking in person. If you or your girlfriend is shy, you also might find it easier to find your sexual tongue on the phone than face to face. Even people who live together find talking about sex on the phone feels totally different than talking together in person.
A lunchtime call from the office can lead to a "quickie" over the phone to make the rest of the day go by a little faster. And for most people, telling their deepest sexual fantasies comes much more easily when they cannot see the person they are talking to. That is probably the reason so many dollars are spent on commercial phone sex. The difference here is that you are telling a person you care about, and that can make your fantasies come to life. Talking on the phone often somehow feels more intimate than talking in person. It also leaves one hand free if you should happen to
find that all that talk makes you want to masturbate. You can tell your fantasy in a present tense as if you were describing something that was happening at that minute. "I am taking off your bra. Your nipples stand up as I suck on them". That way, your partner can take over from time to time "It feels wonderful when you suck on them. Don’t stop".
By sharing your fantasies on the phone, you can weave amazing fantasies that include things you would have trouble doing in person, or that you wouldn’t really want to do but like the idea of. Also if you or your girlfriend have fantasies about being other people - a pirate and his captive maiden or a rich woman and the gardener - it’s sometimes easier to do it on the phone. You and your wife or girlfriend can also weave fantasies from which you can take your next encounter together. You can learn a little more about what each of you like and dislike sexually, and which are the best parts, and next time you can do those more. This is also a wonderful way to spend your nights when you’re out of town. A romantic phone call to say "I miss you" can become an amazing sexual encounter that will keep both of you tingling all the next day.
If your lover is unsure, but is open to listening, the first time you try this she may mostly listen. If you feel awkward, you can start slow with things that you like about her, and what your favourite things are that she does to you. This won’t take as much creative thought, and won’t feel as risky as telling a deep-seated fantasy. Or you can talk about the first time you had sex together. What it felt like, how good it was. Once again, this is not as sexual as you would probably like to get, but starting slow might be more comfortable.
Phone sex with your partner can give whole new dimensions to your sexual feelings for each other, and make being apart a lot more fun.
The Straighter the Better
November 9th, 2007
The penis is considered as one of the most important organs of men. Statistics show that men are very much affected by the way their penises looks and functions. More often than not, men’s sexuality is defined by their penis. It serves as a tool that satisfies sexual pleasures and desires. In addition, the penis is the one of the most significant organs in promoting procreation. Aside from the size, the shape of the penis is also important for men. A man does anything just to make sure that the shape of his penis will be the shape of his preference. Above all, the shape of the penis can determine the success of a man while having sex.
Normally, the penis of a man is not perfectly straight. Most of the penis shows slight bent and there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. There were only rare instances when a man has a penis that has no bents. The curve of the penis can be caused by a lot of factors. The first one, which is genetics, is the most common of them all. Since the genes dictate a man’s physical existence, it is no secret that the shape of a man’s penis will follow that of his ancestors. Same goes to the other aspects like the size and the color. Moreover, an accident can cause the penis to be out of shape. Apparently, the curve might even get worse and permanent. Furthermore, a disease can also called Peyronie’s can cause the penis to curve. This circumstance is very dangerous and needs proper medications before it gets worse.
There are different opinions with regards to the effectivity of a straight penis and a crooked penis while doing sex. Physically, a straight penis does look good and women are more inclined to have sex with someone who has a straight penis. Accordingly, one of the turn offs of women is when they see a penis with a peculiar shape. Women become less enthusiastic when engaging to sex and some even decline the idea. It is very hard to imagine how an odd shaped penis will totally penetrate in a very small vaginal hole. This is one of the reasons why having an extremely curved penis is always a disadvantage. The thing about it is that the sexual intercourse will be very painful both for the man and woman. Indeed, sex is not enjoyable when the pain is felt in the entire session.
The only advantage that a crooked penis has is the sensation that it brings once it has entered the vagina. Accordingly, there is a different feeling and something that provides great satisfaction. Though it is still curable, a curved penis can give a man a lot of trouble. Others say the exercise will work and some even suggested unconventional ways of straightening the penis. All situations point that a straight penis is often preferred than a curved penis. It helps in attracting women and makes every sexual encounters effortless with all satisfaction provided.
Losing Fat Fast- Is it possible
November 9th, 2007
The first thing you need to know if you want to lose fat is that you need to BURN fat. Burning fat is all about using up more calories than you take in. If you eat more calories than your body uses throughout the day, these additional calories will be stored as body fat. To prevent a build up of body fat you need to either reduce your calorie intake or increase your daily activity levels - doing both will have the best effect on reducing body fat.
This simply means that the more fat you want to lose then the greater the amount of calories you have to burn off. To help you achieve and speed up your fat loss, here are few things that helps.
Speed up your metabolism-Exercise speeds up metabolism. The more active your lifestyle the more likely you are to have a quick metabolism and lose weight.
Metabolism does control weight, this is true. What most people don-t know is that they do in fact have the ability to control and adjust their metabolisms and thereby control their weight. Exercise does speed the metabolism up. The more active your lifestyle the more likely you are to have a quick metabolism and lose weight. It may not be healthy for all of us to get into a highly active lifestyle all at once but it is possible to get there as quickly as you safely can as an individual.
Eat healthy balanced diet- Be sure to eat a variety of foods, including plenty of vegetables, fruits, and whole grain products. Also include low-fat dairy products, lean meats, poultry, fish, and legumes. Drink lots of water and go easy on the salt, sugar, alcohol, and saturated fat. A large part of the battle in fighting fat and a slow metabolic rate is the western world-s view of food as entertainment. In addition to taking on an active lifestyle you will need to stop looking at food consumption as a means of gratification. This is what causes us to be gluttons. Instead of stopping when our hunger is sated we continue on until we are stuffed to get more enjoyment out of it.
Get plenty of rest and sleep- Sleep and other lifestyle patterns can help or hinder the rate at which we metabolize foods. An active lifestyle should lead eventually to being able to exercise to exhaustion- this in turn should keep your metabolism quick and your fat content low. By extending oneself to ones limits you fully utilize the lungs, heart, and muscles and burn fat most efficiently.
Be strong mentally-Try not to be obsessed by your weight. Everyone has a bad day. Do not punish yourself. Try to lose any guilt feelings towards the mistakes you have done. Instead, just move on, start again and enjoy life as it comes.



