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Oral Sex Orgasms

November 3rd, 2007

by Peter James

With more than half the year gone I-d like to know how many of us have achieved an absolutely mind blowing orgasm or helped their partner achieve one. Did you know that more than 30% of women in the world cannot experience and orgasm? It made me wonder what an orgasm like this would be like until I experienced one myself and it wasn-t until 7 years ago that I first realized what I had been missing out on for all these years. For many women the best way of achieving a wild orgasm where your body seems to explode all the way from your toes to your clit and the most consistent way is through oral sex.

I am going on what I have learnt over 4 years as a working girl seeing men and women on a daily basis and am prepared to share a technique that a lot of men have tried on their partners- If a partner knows how to give outstanding oral sex then a woman will reach an orgasm majority of the time-

My partner certainly knows how to play with my little button and he sure knows how to make my bells ring- so guys help your partners experience this wonderful sensation that I enjoy so much-

Hmmm I can see some of you looking at your partners and asking that question, -How can I give you what she-s having?-

It reminds me of the shampoo commercial with Meg Ryan in it, -Oh yesss!!! Yes!!! Yes!!!!- -I-ll have what she-s having–

Ok guys lets get down to some real fun with your partner.

There are many different ways to give oral to your partner and all I can say is, the best way is the way you and your partner feel most comfortable with.

Both you and your partner should be in a comfortable and relaxed position and ladies YOU NEED to tell your partner what you want him to do!!!! Enjoying and pleasing is a team effort so to speak, enjoy sex at it-s best for both of you, not just one of you.

Foreplay can be fun if you let your bodies relax and enjoy the sensual touching that can be experienced either in or out of bed. Sexual encounters do not have to take place in bed or they can take place anywhere that you feel comfortable.

I like lying near a roaring fire on a sheepskin wool rug in winter, watching a XXX video and sipping on a glass of wine. In the kitchen is good too, but just remember to have a wide enough bench top and remove sharp knives in case of a slip-up of some sort-. Showering with a friend can also be exciting, but sometimes, oral services can get water logged.

Ok, back to guys giving oral to their partner-

Here is an excerpt from a story I once wrote-

-I want you to suck my clit and lick my pussy- that-s right, I want you to kneel between my legs and use your tongue, tickle my clit, lick my pussy juice. I want you to fuck my cunt with your tongue.

My legs are open for you cause I am as horny as hell and my juices want to flow as you bring me to a mind-blowing orgasm.

Oh yes, that is so nice, tease my pussy, flick my clit softly, don-t point your tongue, use the flat part of your tongue to lick me. My pussy loves to be licked, I want to feel you caress my pussy with your hot tongue, make it tingle all over-

With your head between my thighs, my pussy is hot as you lick, tasting my juices one more time. Sliding one finger into my twat, you tickle my g-spot, playing with a sensitive area that makes me have wild orgasms. I love it Steve and I don-t want you to stop- push two fingers into my hole now and fuck me hard with them as you lick my clit- Oh Steve, I-m Cumming now!!! Fuck me harder!! That-s it, harder, suck on my clit - oh yes ahhhhhh-

Hmmm, I love reading this part of the story-

However, there are parts of this story that you should pay attention to.
1. Use the flat of your tongue - really going to town and sucking on a girl-s clit may sound exciting to some men, but I have found that it can also turn a girl off with the continual sucking.

Ok to help you guys along a bit about how this may feel to a lady- Think about how the head of your cock feels just after you have ejaculated- sensitive right? Yep, well going on my experience that is what it feels like to have your clit sucked over and over. On that note some ladies may enjoy it, so really it is individually based on what your partner-s sense of arousal and the sensations that this may cause. Hope this makes sense-

2. Listen to her - if she tells you to fuck her pussy with your tongue, then do it, follow her lead but at the same time experiment, use your fingers to please and tease at the same time, if she likes toys, use them gently unless she tells you to fuck her harder and harder with them-

3. Ladies, tell your man what you want, don-t be afraid to open up and tell him your needs.

Above all else, relax and enjoy your sexual experiences together. If you can-t relax your mind-blowing orgasm may not happen- so please ladies take my advice, relax and you will enjoy- focus on a point that is most sensitive and let it happen for you-.

On that note, I hope you all give it a go and enjoy the oral experience that we all desire. Mind-blowing orgasms are wild and fantastic- foreplay with out intercourse can be a wonderful way to play.

Please remember that I am not a Sex Therapist, but I am a sex worker who learns so much from her clients, male and female and of course the couples I see.

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Briefs Vs. Boxer Shorts

November 3rd, 2007

The revolution in fashion has created a lot of changes in men’s underwear. Designers every now and then reinvent briefs and boxer shorts. The difference between the two is basically in the size and fit. Briefs are smaller, thus they fit perfectly to the body of men. On the other hand, boxers are buggy and cooler when used. Men’s preference differs a lot in choosing the best between the two. Briefs are said to be sexy and defines the figure of men. Some use briefs because it is the traditional underwear. Others find boxer shorts very annoying especially when they use fitted pants. Boxer shorts are for the conservatives and for those who are uncomfortable with tightly fit underwear. There are more than enough reasons why some men use boxer shorts and why some men use briefs.

Recently, a lot of arguments have been created as to which between the two will be beneficial to men’s fertility. According to some, tight briefs generate a lot of heat. They say that heat can cause infertility that is why a lot of brief patrons have shifted from their usual underwear. Another viable reason is that briefs prevent movement of the penis. It is said that constant exercise by the penis will help in stimulating and erecting it. In addition, the blood will flow more freely enabling the penis to serve its purpose. With the influx of arguments about the bad effects of briefs to men’s fertility, there has not been any significant change of the part of men in terms of underwear preference. In fact, brief manufacturers insist that such claims are untrue as proven by some studies, which showed no significant difference in the use of briefs and boxer shorts to man fertility.

According to a study, sperm sterilization can be caused by sudden increase of temperature in the testes. So much heat will destroy some of the sperm cells until a man reaches infertility. In the experiment, men were asked to wear briefs and boxer shorts. The most important factor was the difference of the heat in the testes when using a brief or a boxer short. The results suggested that the claim on briefs causing heat is purely exaggeration. Briefs do not generate enough heat to disturb the balance in men’s reproductive organs. To boot, there is no significant distinction observed in terms of the temperature of the testes after using a brief and a boxer short. Moreover, the preference to use a brief or a boxer short has no effect in the fertility of men. Therefore, the advice given to men to use boxer shorts instead of briefs is proven as scientifically and medically baseless.

The facts clearly indicate that choosing between a brief and a boxer short should not be based on fertility issues. Since, there are no significant differences, style and comfort will be the determinants in selecting the best underwear. Brief users have no reasons to panic and boxer shorts users have nothing to argue about. The only thing that should separate both is the design and nothing else.

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Good Foods

November 3rd, 2007

by Michael Messner

We all know that what we eat can help us prevent certain illnesses. We see on television all the time about people who are ill because of their diet. Well, maybe we should say lack of a diet. These people tend to be at risk of disease because they don’t have the right things to eat. When people think of health and prevention, I think some of them think about pills and their doctor. To some people, they think these are the only tools they have. That isn’t true. In fact, there are more important tools for you to use.Our diet is important not just for our appearance. A good diet will decrease your chance of getting cancer and other diseases. I know that it is hard to believe that just what we eat can play such a big role, but it does.

Think of it like this. As the old saying goes, you are what you eat. That is true. Your body needs many things to survive. Over the long term you realize that diet is more important than ever before. I probably just like you have known many people who have had cancer. Also, we see on television all the time famous people getting cancer. A lot of these people don’t smoke. They don’t do drugs, rarely drink alcohol.

Why are they getting cancer? I’m sure some of it has to do with genetics and some of it has to do with pollution. While up to 1/3 of it, is due to diet. That’s right, they get cancer because what they eat. Perhaps it could be said better by saying, what they don’t eat. Let’s talk about some of the foods you should eat to prevent cancer and other illness. This is an important article, so I would bookmark it and come back when you have any questions.

Apples. It was once said, an apple a day will keep the doctor away. This is true. These are loaded with vitamins A and C. They also help lower cholesterol and they lower your chance of getting cancer.

Broccoli. Just because a former president didn’t eat his, doesn’t mean you should avoid yours. Actually, this is one of my favorite veggies. One serving has 97% of your vitamin C for the day. Also, it is a good source of calcium.

Oranges. Not only do these babies taste good, but they are good for you as well. They do help in preventing colds and flues. They also help prevent many forms of cancer. They are one of my favorite fruits.

Onions. Half an onion a day will lower your cholesterol. Also, if you ever notice how you tear up when you cut an onion. They are good for people with asthma or other breathing problems. They open up the head so to speak. Also they fight cancer such as stomach cancer. You might not know it, but onions were once believed to be sent from god. They were believed to make people live longer and healthier. One thing you might not know is, onions reduce your risk of heart attacks and strokes. Maybe there is some truth to all of that god stuff after all.

Carrots. Carrots have beta carotene which has been known for a long time to fight cancer. Remember when you were a kid and were told to eat your carrots or you will go blind? Well, that isn’t true, but they are good for the eyes.

Salmon. Out of all the fatty fish, this one is best for you. It contains omega-3 fat, which is very good for your heart. People who eat salmon at least once per week are said to have a 50% lower chance of heart attack.

Beans. You know these little devils. I used to eat them the night before going to school so I could fart all day long. Not only are these good for prostate cancer, but they also are a good source of fiber.

Seaweed. No, I don’t mean a joint that you smoke while at sea. I mean the stuff that comes from the ocean. This is loaded with iodine and other things. It has calcium, magnesium, and iron. This is very good for fighting cancer.

Lemons. All you have to do is go to the supermarket and see how many lemon flavored cold remedies there are to see the potential of this citrus fruit. Lemons are a great way to prevent a cold, the punch of vitamin C will keep you healthy. It is also good for sore throats.

Garlic. What doesn’t this stuff do? Well, while it might not be a cure all like once believed. It does prevent almost everything under the sun. From heart disease to cancer, this is great stuff. I suggest that you study up on garlic so that you understand all of the good things it does. It would take an article the length of a book to go into great detail.

There you have it. Though I’m sure you are some what surprised, I’m sure that you will be able to absorb all the info in this article. If you can’t, just bookmark it and read where you left off.

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