Mens Health and Sex Advice

by Peter James

Have you ever walked by a woman at a bar and she stuck her nose up at you? Have you ever talked to a woman and she told you that she could perform the best oral sex you ever had, only to be let down? Are you the type that when you first talk to a woman, you try to prove how big of a stud you are? Women hate that, they really do. What is worse is a man who brags but can’t perform? Women don’t like men who brag. They hate it because most of it is lies. You lie to them and tell them you work in a big office building, but forget to tell them you are the janitor. You tell them you have a huge penis, maybe that is because you figure that they won’t actually see it.

You lie to them about how much money you have in the bank, but by the time you pay your child support you end up eating rice and beans for every meal.

Women don’t want a man that lies to them. They want someone who is honest, warts and all. Well, that is a figure of speech, they don’t want a man with warts. I think you get what I am saying.

One lie builds up to many lies. It isn’t good to lie to a woman as soon as the relationship takes ground. It makes no sense, you can’t keep up with all the lies. She will find out some day. She will find out that the car you pick her up in every Friday on your dates, is your buddies car and not yours.

It is important that in the blooming stages of a relationship that the foundation is good. I think of it like this. A mushroom needs sterile fertile ground to grow. If the ground is polluted, the mushroom won’t grow. Love is a lot like that mushroom.

If you start a relationship based on lies, it will crumble down. Let me give you another example. If you build a house and the foundation isn’t strong, the house will become tilted and will sink in. The same is true with a relationship.

If you feel that it is only a one night stand, lie through your teeth if you need to. Chances are she already has made up her mind before she left the house that she wanted to get laid. So, what does either of you have to loose? You both are looking for sex, as long as sex is the outcome, everyone is happy. Of course, don’t lie and tell you are clean if you aren’t. That is plainly wrong.

I was once in a relationship that was built on nothing but lies. We both lied to each other like crazy. I told her I was rich and she told me she was a stripper. Neither of them were true. She lied and told me that she had sex with tons of women, ended up none of that was true. She made the story up about the lesbianism to turn me on. To try to reel me in.
I told her that I had a great job and I was making tons of money. I wasn’t making shit for money, I just had a nice saving built up. She told me things so that I would feel sorry for her. She would tell me that she had nothing to eat in her house, all the while she was gaining weight like crazy.

Everything went smoothly in the relationship. The sex was great. Wait, the sex was fantastic. She was so good in bed that I couldn’t believe it. She rocked my world every time. It was kind of hard waking up next to a woman that I knew the whole relationship was based on lies. The thing was, the sex was so good, that I didn’t care.

One day it all went to hell. It happened faster than I could think. All of her and my lies built up to a brick wall of frustration. I was out of the relationship in a matter of no time. I couldn’t believe how fast it ended.

What happened was, my feelings were hurt. My whole life had been crushed. I actually was dumb enough to fall in love with this woman. I’m not sure how that happened, but maybe because the sex was so great. I don’t know.

I spent years and years with a broken heart because of this. Now, I don’t feel this way. I know that since everything was based on lies, that the relationship couldn’t have went anywhere. But, for years I felt like shit. I really did. It ruined my life and I couldn’t understand why.

If this story isn’t enough to make you wash your mouth out with soap every time you lie to a woman, I don’t know what will. You have to keep in mind the long term effects of your lies. She will see them eventually. She will see that you don’t have all that money that you claim you have. She will see that your penis is small compared to how you boast about it. She will see that you don’t have a clue in this world how the real world revolves. She will only see your lies.

This isn’t a good idea. If you feel like you have to lie to get a woman, she isn’t worth having. If you have to be anyone except yourself, then you need to look for a woman that you can be. All it will do is cause you problems later on in the relationship.

Think of it like this… If you have to lie, then there is a problem right off the bat. For example, if you have to lie about how much money you make. Chances are this woman is a gold digger and she is worthless. All she will do is take all of your money and run. She will run when she realizes that you don’t have any money to take.

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Men have always considered their penis size as an important factor in their sexual and psychological health. With an enlarged penis comes self-confidence, more active social and sexual life, and, of course, a certain amount of edge in the ongoing subconscious battle for the position of the alpha male. Consequently, the question on many men’s minds is probably as to who has the largest human penis. Many studies have attempted to answer this question, but the results have been conflicting. Of course, the matter of man’s penis size is not a very ideal subject for objective study. The reason is that all men of the human specie want to claim the honor of having the largest penis. Moreover, countless ways exist nowadays to keep artificially augmenting the natural endowment of any man. Thus, it has become harder and harder to determine the answer to this important question.

For the man’s most pressing sexual concern, the first thing to be done is determine if his penis size at least meets the averages. There are several statistics dealing with today’s average penis sizes. Generally, Caucasian males have penis sizes averaging about 6.2 inches long, with the approximate circumference of 3.2 inches. However, studies conducted as early as 1795, have invariably shown that the African Negro race has superior penis length and roundness. Contrary to this, the studies conducted by the famous Kinsey Institute report only a minimal advantage for Negro races, whose genitals measure 6.3 inches in length and 3.7 in circumferences. In order to be closer to the truth, more conclusive data should be gathered in this area since the sampling of test subjects done in that particular Kinsey study yielded only about 50 black males as opposed to the 2,500 Caucasian males. This unequal sampling does not prove the figures given beyond doubt.

Now that the averages have been established, it would be proper to tackle the matter of the world’s largest penises. Unfortunately, the more precise details like the names of those blessed with the record-holding penises are very elusive pieces of information. However, the penis sizes themselves are easy to find. The largest, but unofficial measurement was obtained by Dr. David Reuben. He was able to encounter a subject with a penis that was 14 inches long, when erect, in 1969. This amazing information, however, remains unverified to this date. Thus, the official rank of the largest penis belongs to a man measured and documented by Dr. Robert Dickinson in the earlier part of the twentieth century. This record-holding penis was 13.5 inches in length and 6.25 inches in circumference. Several other studies from Alfred Kinsey, and other known scientists yielded impressive results, which ranged approximately from 9.5 to twelve inches.

At present, various claims from men all over the world have been made to several institutions stating that they possess even larger penises. The problem with the present claims, however, is that men nowadays are presented with so many opportunities for self-enhancement, that it becomes difficult to judge the validity of their claims. The present record holder’s penis was measured in the earlier part of the 1900’s, which nullifies most of today’s technological advancement in penis enlargement. Thus, until this date, Dr. Dickinson’s documented case remains to be the most valid candidate as the alpha male of the species.

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by Michael Messner

Everyone from time to time gets a craving for a certain type of food. Sometimes we just crave something to eat. No real reason, other than to eat. Sometimes this can be because you are bored, or because you seem something suggestive about food. How many times have you seen a television commercial advertising burgers and it made you want one? This is healthy. We all do it. Hell, I’d say that we probably do this several times per week. Did you know, that you can be addicted to food? I know that sounds a little weird, but it is true. How can you tell if you are a food addict? Sometimes it might not be as easy as you think. There are many things that might come in your way of knowing if you are a food addict. You might be depressed or in an emotional downward spiral that will tarnish your ability to see what is going on. Over a period of time, you will be able to tell if you have an eating problem. If nothing else, you will see it in your waist line. It doesn’t take a genius to figure that out.

What foods are addictive? Well, that is a hard answer. There is no hard answer on what is addictive. It is like saying what is more addictive, beer or whiskey. Though there are a few foods that are extremely addictive.

Caffeine.
We all know that this is addictive. I’m sure if you are a coffee drinker, you know how you get the shakes in the morning if you don’t have your coffee. Is coffee addiction bad for you? It depends on how much that you drink. If you are drinking a few cups a day, I don’t think that it is harmful. If on the other hand you are drinking several pots per day, you have a problem. Even though it is addictive, you can control the amount that you consume. Unless you have a very addictive personality. If this is the case, I would suggest that you avoid coffee and other caffeine containing products all together.

Sugar.
This is addictive. We try not to think of it as being so, but it is. It is addictive because of the jolt of energy that it gives us. If you haven’t had your daily truck load of sugar and you feel tired, worn out, cranky, you are going through withdraw. Did you know that heroin addicts that are going through withdraw consume large amounts of sugar? It is said that sugar helps ward off the cravings of heroin. Sugar is one of those things that is hard to avoid. The best thing that you can do is avoid candy and other sweets. You will digest some sugar, but if you avoid those things, you will cut out a big portion of your sugar consumption. You should also avoid sodas. They are loaded with sugar.

Carbs.
This is one thing that people will get frustrated at me over. I do think that carbs are addictive. For the same reasons that sugar is addictive. The best thing that you can do is avoid eating too much bread and pasta. That is the best way to avoid getting addicted to carbs.

I’m not saying that if you are addicted to carbs you will be like a junky. What I am saying is, that you will become dependant on them. I think that many people are addicted to carbs and don’t know it. It isn’t something that we think about when it comes to addictions. What should you do if you are a food addict? If you can control it, you should do your best to do so. If you are the type that has a strong will, it shouldn’t be too hard.

The problem is, most of us don’t have a strong will when it comes to addictions. We are a race of addicted creatures. I’m beginning to think that most of us are addicted to something. No matter if it is coffee, cigarettes, booze and so forth. If you don’t feel that you can control it, you need to go to your doctor. You need to tell him what is going on. Don’t be ashamed to talk to him about it. You should be more ashamed of yourself if you do nothing about it. After you talk to him you should look into finding a support group for people who have food addictions. Your doctor will probably point you to a therapist. The therapist will know of a support group you can attend. If you aren’t to point that you can talk openly about such a thing in person, you can find support groups online. They are free to use, meaning they don’t charge any money. You will begin to find out what treatment and other things are available. These are people who fight what you are going through every day.

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