Mens Health and Sex Advice

by Michael Messner

Finding women who enjoy casual sex is like finding a gold mine. Everyone enjoys having a sex partner without any strings attached. It is like finding a hundred dollar bill on the side of the street. Nothing can get better than this. You dream about being able to do this, but you never get to. You have lost all hope haven’t you? Don’t loose hope. In this article, we will teach you how to find those partners for causal sex. If you are lucky enough to bag her, don’t talk about getting married afterwards. Act like the sex was good, but don’t go over board. Women do this when they play hard to get. Don’t show too much interest in her.
Act like you enjoyed the sex and her company, but don’t fall head over heels for her. At least if you have, don’t let her know about it. Don’t buy her anything. I mean never ever buy her anything. If she has sex with you and you bring over a bunch of roses, she will think you want more than just sex. Don’t get fooled into this! Be nice, but when it comes to spending money, no dice!

What ever you do, don’t fall into traps. If she starts crying because she wants a relationship or because she thinks all you want is sex, run fast away from her. She is saying these things to trap you into a relationship. Of course you don’t want that, all you want is the sex. You need to get those rocks off. If she pulls out the traps, be smart and don’t get caught in them. The problem with having causal sex is, that sex can loose its meaning. You are so happy to be getting laid, that there isn’t any love in it. I know that sounds mushy, but even men enjoy love. Consider the emotional effects this may have on you before you go crazy and have sex with tons of women.

Keep on the look out for new casual sex partners that you can engage in great sex with. This will give you a great amount of choices when you decide that you are horny that day. We all can use more choices, can’t we? Having these babes that you can bag at will is great. If you get turned down by that hot babe at the bar, you can always call up one of your casual sex buddies. This is a great way to make the anger of getting rejected less painful.

One of the things that you need to understand that when you have casual sex, many problems can happen. You can get STDs. If you engage in this type of sex, then you should be very careful. Always and I mean always wear a condom. Make sure that you get checked by the doctor often. It isn’t right to spread disease around to people. You wouldn’t like that happening to you. So please, watch your step.

Another thing to keep in mind is that sex can result in babies. Hold the damn phone, it can cause babies? Of course it can. If you are going to have casual sex, then you should be prepared to have kids. Condoms break, shit happens, and all that jazz. With sex, comes the chance of pregnancy. If you keep the things above in mind, you will be great with your casual sex partner. If you do it right, it can be a lot of fun. Always make sure to protect yourself at all costs. No pussy in the world is worth dying for.

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Those exposed to western culture have been conditioned to believe the mindset ‘the bigger the better’ about all sorts of things, from cars to houses to portions in restaurants. This way of thinking extends to penile size as well. Big men are most likely to have slightly bigger penises, although, contrary to popular belief, there is no correlation between the size of a man’s nose or feet and the size of his organ.

Does it really make any difference when you’re having sex? For Samantha X, it matters - a lot. "Sure it matters - I’ve had some massive members in my time, and I really enjoyed them! I find that the bigger the penis, the greater the feeling." In fact, a woman who doesn’t prefer a bigger-than-average penis is more of an exception rather than the norm. While men’s penis come in various colors, shapes and sizes, a study conducted by the Alfred C. Kinsey Institute for Sex Research has shown that the average penis size is anywhere from 5-7 inches. Size does not matter - to a certain extent - in order bestow a physical sensation upon a woman. "I once slept with a guy who had a stub for a cock and I couldn’t feel anything. I ended up going into the bathroom and satisfying myself - a situation I don’t care to repeat."

The heart of the matter is that most women don’t like very small penises, whatever is done with them. A small, slender penis is not very rewarding in itself and many women complain that they ‘can’t feel anything,’ especially if their vagina has previously been stretched by having children. That does not necessarily mean that length-challenged men cannot be good lovers, but that penis size alone probably is not going to do it.

Research has confirmed that what most women want is a bigger-than-average penis, but what is really important is width rather than length. They say the ideal penis is one which is thick enough to stretch the woman’s vaginal opening and which can be felt inside their body, each time they have sex. "I would rather sleep with a guy who has a thick member than someone with a thin, reedy schlong that hits my cervix every time he penetrates me."

Similarly, most of the 200 women interviewed representing all ages (over 18), sizes, ethnicities, and sexual habits opted for girth (or the circumference) over length, as they claimed to enjoy the feeling of a thick penis rubbing against their vaginal walls rather than having an unusually long penis poking against their insides.

When it comes to racial preferences, Samantha had this to say- "I’ve noticed that African-Americans are really well-endowed as compared to other nationalities. They also seem to be much more confident in bed knowing that they have the right size package." One’s ethnic group does produce significant anatomical differences among males. For instance, black men are indeed bigger than Caucasian men, but only by half an inch or so, on average, while Asian men are about half an inch smaller on average.

All these information just show that women are turned on and satisfied by a large, thick, and powerful penis, not to mention they are visually stimulating as well. Women such as Samantha know how to appreciate well-endowed men, or even those just think they are, since they are usually much more sexually confident about their sack skills.

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By Paul Freegale

It is often said that we eat with our eyes. Though this might sound stupid, think about it for a second. You know that we are attracted by the opposite sex with our eyes. You wouldn’t go down on a woman who you weren’t attracted to would you? So, we do eat with our eyes first. It is important then when dealing with a new diet that we understand that we do eat with our eyes. It is important because if we don’t like what we see, chances are we won’t eat it. This is why restaurants put a little bit of green leafy material on the side of your plates. It is to make your eyes wake up. If it looks good, it probably tastes good. I think that the problem that most people have is that they don’t make their food look pretty enough. When they go on a diet, they tend to make the food look too bland. But if they were eating a pound of bacon, they would work extra hard to make it look good.

Maybe it is due to some part because we dress up things that are bad for us. We try to dress it up so that we forget how bad it is. I think this is true some times when going out to a restaurant and eating. They don’t want you to focus on all the butter and fat that is in the dish.
What can you do to liven up your diet? You need to remember some fundamental things. Here we will discuss those.

Like in all things, our senses lead us. If something looks or smells bad, we will run away from it. The same is true with food. Make sure that your food is alive and looks good. Use contrasting colors that make the food jump off the plate. Try to blanch green veggies so that they keep their color. Use lemon juice or other acid to maintain color when you have to.

Color is important because of something looks wilted and over cooked, we won’t want to eat it. It is as simple as that. Make the colors come alive. Try to be an artist with your food. Veggies come in all colors. You can use red bell peppers or purple onions. Go to your super market and pay attention to the colors of the veggies. Also, by doing so you will pay closer attention to freshness. Smells are important. Try to use as many spices and herbs as you can. Just because a dish is low in fat doesn’t mean that it has to taste like card board. You should try to wake up your taste buds with every meal you have.

Hot peppers are a great way of doing this. You get a lot of bang for your buck when it comes to hot peppers. Usually they are very cheap and one will go a long ways. If you want flavor instead of heat, you can always add a little pinch of sugar. I love hot peppers and try to use them every chance I can.

Texture.

This is one area that people tend to really over look. If it feels weird in your mouth, chances are you won’t want to eat it. Make sure that your food isn’t over cooked. Don’t cook the veggies to the point they are mush. Try to keep everything looking and tasting like it did when it was fresh.

The way that you arrange your plate makes a difference as well. Try to make your plate look as full as possible. Don’t push everything to one side. Spread things out a bit and make it look like as big of a meal as possible. Use all the room on your plate. Sometimes it helps to burn some incense or something while you are eating. Just don’t do any of the fruit flavored ones or ones that will make you more hungry. Something that smells good will take your mind off of your hunger.

Also, drink plenty of fluids while you eat. I have known many people who wait and drink their fluids after they are done eating. This will take more food to fill you up. Instead, sip on your drink as you eat. This will also help in digestion.

You see, when you are starting a diet you have to make sure that you are telling the brain that you aren’t depriving it of the food that it loves. You have to make sure that you keep things exciting and try new things. If you can do this, you will have more success with your diet.

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